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    Tonya + Samantha
    lovedby.her
    • Nov 26, 2019
    • 7 min

    Tonya + Samantha

    ...when love is your perfect match Just like it is sheer luck and destiny to meet the love of your life in a grocery store or in the club...
    391 views0 comments
    #YourSexualityUnwrapped: What To Do When Your Family Hasn't Accepted You
    lovedby.her
    • Nov 26, 2019
    • 3 min

    #YourSexualityUnwrapped: What To Do When Your Family Hasn't Accepted You

    Michela Ravasio/elitedaily.com To be young, Black and queer means you are exceptional at navigating spaces and places that are not meant ...
    92 views0 comments
    The 7 Deadly Sins of Cuffing Season
    lovedby.her
    • Oct 22, 2019
    • 4 min

    The 7 Deadly Sins of Cuffing Season

    Welp! Summer is over and I hope your love life isn’t as dead as nature tends to be around this time of year. With the impending arrival o...
    128 views0 comments
    Angie + Stephanie
    lovedby.her
    • Oct 22, 2019
    • 6 min

    Angie + Stephanie

    ….when love is balanced Am I attracted to her? Do we have things in common? Will she understand me? Or will she judge me for the things t...
    433 views0 comments
    Your Weight In Love: The Thin Line Between Loving Or Fetishizing Your Plus Sized Partner
    lovedby.her
    • Sep 18, 2019
    • 3 min

    Your Weight In Love: The Thin Line Between Loving Or Fetishizing Your Plus Sized Partner

    In my opinion, the discussion about weight in our community is always a few ways sided and a couple of ways wrong. The ease in which peo...
    557 views0 comments
    Anastasia + Taylor
    lovedby.her
    • Sep 18, 2019
    • 7 min

    Anastasia + Taylor

    …when love is not constrained by time The concept of “u-hauling,” where a couple who has only been together a short amount of time immedi...
    370 views0 comments
    4 Black Queer Writers You Should Be Following
    lovedby.her
    • Sep 18, 2019
    • 2 min

    4 Black Queer Writers You Should Be Following

    As you know #TheCozyCorner is invested in highlighting queer Black writers and artists that are tastemakers and culture changers. For our...
    71 views0 comments
    No Strings Attached: Navigating Dating Multiple People
    lovedby.her
    • Aug 21, 2019
    • 2 min

    No Strings Attached: Navigating Dating Multiple People

    Personally, I think monogamy is irrelevant and it’s mostly because I found myself emotionally stunted in almost all of my monogamist rela...
    142 views0 comments
    #NotionsofMasculinity: How Toxic Masculinity Defined Me
    lovedby.her
    • Aug 21, 2019
    • 3 min

    #NotionsofMasculinity: How Toxic Masculinity Defined Me

    At a very early age, I wanted to model the men in my life: uncles, boy cousins, and family friends. The boys always had fun. From climbin...
    137 views0 comments
    Controlling the Narrative: Black Queer Youtube Web Series
    lovedby.her
    • Aug 21, 2019
    • 3 min

    Controlling the Narrative: Black Queer Youtube Web Series

    Due to the notorious lack of Black queer movies and TV shows with proper representation within mainstream entertainment, a few brave soul...
    84 views0 comments
    #GetTheStrap Part-Two: Choosing the Right Dildo for Your Partner
    lovedby.her
    • Jul 24, 2019
    • 3 min

    #GetTheStrap Part-Two: Choosing the Right Dildo for Your Partner

    We are back to ‘strap talk’ people because “the strap” is a two part sex toy that goes both ways–in certain ways. We’ve established that ...
    440 views0 comments
    A Letter from the Editor: To Be Black, Queer and Navigating Love
    lovedby.her
    • Jul 24, 2019
    • 4 min

    A Letter from the Editor: To Be Black, Queer and Navigating Love

    Historically, lesbians and queer identifying feminine and masculine presenting individuals have been digested by society in a very partic...
    165 views1 comment
    Out of Bait: Are You Being Emotionally or Sexually Catfished?
    lovedby.her
    • Jul 24, 2019
    • 3 min

    Out of Bait: Are You Being Emotionally or Sexually Catfished?

    When Catfish: The TV Show aired in 2012, it took our generation and pop culture by storm. Every episode we saw an attractive, seemingly n...
    179 views0 comments
    #ComingOut: Disaster Artist
    lovedby.her
    • Jul 10, 2019
    • 2 min

    #ComingOut: Disaster Artist

    A bit about me, I’m JR, I’m a 23 year old lesbian, author and poet. I grew up a tomboy, raised in a mixture of Black, Mexican, Danish, an...
    146 views0 comments
    #GetTheStrap: The Battle of the Harnesses
    lovedby.her
    • Jul 10, 2019
    • 2 min

    #GetTheStrap: The Battle of the Harnesses

    Let’s talk sex toys. There is one genre of sex toys that reigns supreme in the lesbian and queer community - “the strap.” “The strap” sim...
    426 views0 comments
    What Happens When You Run Out of Left Swipes?
    lovedby.her
    • Jul 10, 2019
    • 4 min

    What Happens When You Run Out of Left Swipes?

    An examination of dating apps and how they cater to the black LGBTQIA community. Listen, if you know me–and you probably don’t since this...
    166 views0 comments
    Bonding on a Budget
    lovedby.her
    • Jul 10, 2019
    • 3 min

    Bonding on a Budget

    Cost friendly dates for you and your partner Summer is here and that usually means spending more money. Studies have shown that sunlight ...
    97 views0 comments
    To Uhaul or To Not Uhaul
    lovedby.her
    • Jul 9, 2019
    • 2 min

    To Uhaul or To Not Uhaul

    5 ways to avoid moving too fast in your new relationship They say that there is no time limit to falling in love. Sometimes, it can take ...
    116 views0 comments
    Mandisa + Wendi
    lovedby.her
    • Apr 15, 2019
    • 6 min

    Mandisa + Wendi

    Love birthed in the fight for freedom. ...when love is your soft place Mandisa and Wendi are freedom fighters, committed to pushing commu...
    333 views0 comments
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